Well, let's be real: I loved time outs when my parents sent me to my room. I got to play Barbies, read books, blare my Paula Abdul and Amy Grant tapes (to try to annoy everyone for banishing me to my room), etc.
I hated time outs when my parents figured out how to really punish us: send us to the landing where there weren't any toys.
My brother figured out fairly quickly how to make the time pass on his landing timeouts: he'd just fall asleep. Time for me, on the other hand, ticked so slowly because I stayed wide awake and just wanted to be doing something!
(I'm pretty sure my sister never got timeouts because she was the youngest child and therefore got away with everything -- either that or my parents felt bad for her, considering my brother and I put her in timeouts every time they left us home to babysit. Erin, #sorrynotsorry, haha.)
As an adult, I really appreciate, relish a good timeout. Relaxation is so important and something I've come to greatly realize as I've gotten older and have tried to minimize my life.
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But, I have found small ways to relax, to take time for me, and I thought I would share those with you in case you, too, have trouble taking time out of a busy schedule to focus on the person most important in your world: you.
The first thing that I do when I truly want to relax is turn off the TV. I love a good TV show, and I love nothing more than chilling on the couch to a good CSI: New York or Law and Order: SVU marathon. However, while I can definitely fall asleep to those shows, they don't necessarily relax me.
Instead, I have discovered that music relaxes and calms me. Every night while I am cooking dinner, writing my blog post, getting ready for bed, etc., I listen to music. I usually have a relatively chill Pandora station playing, something like David Gray, Brendan James, Of Monsters and Men, or The Script.
The second thing I have found to help me really relax is take a bubble bath. I have never been one to love baths, as my skin always has adverse reactions to sitting in soapy water. (Skin allergies are so fun, y'all.) However, recently I've just said "eff it" and have not had many issues.
(I know you're probably thinking I'm crazy since I have talked a few times about the crazy hives I've gotten recently, but those weren't preceded by a bubble bath -- I swear.)
I have found that bath to be super relaxing because the water is super hot, the bubbles are crazy-moisturizing, and I can't really do much except for read or think. It's wonderful.
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If writing is not your thing, I suggest finding something meditative, whether that be yoga, prayer, silent reflection, etc., something that turns your brain off but that allows you to think in a relaxing, calming manner. (I know that sounds oxymoronic, but I swear it's what writing does to me.)
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The final thing I have found to help me relax is to just think about how restful I am.
I know this one sounds crazy, but please bear with me.
Prior to my Whole30 adventure, I had huge issues with falling asleep at night. Like, I would lie in bed at night for extended periods of time, just waiting to fall asleep: my mind would not shut off.
That was anything but relaxing.
If I have an issue falling asleep now (which rarely happens), I simply think this: "I am getting so much rest right now. Lying here is so restful. I appreciate how at rest I am." More than anything, it serves as a mantra that, when repeated over and over and over, truly does relax me.
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What are your favorite relaxation techniques? How have you minimized your life recently?
I didn't get any time-outs because I'm the favorite. :)
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DeleteOddly enough I relax by rocking out in my bathroom after a shower and dancing like a mad woman. Or accidentally zoning out to sports center.
ReplyDeleteYou and Bro-Jam both.
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